迪士尼在逃公主
发表于 2023-4-4 17:41:55
每年都要祭祖烧纸，是对逝者意义大，还是对我们意义大?
<p style="font-family: PingFang SC, Helvetica, Arial, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft Yahei, STHeiTi, sans-serif; text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; cursor: pointer; max-width: 100%; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></p><section class="_editor" style="margin-bottom: unset;"><p style="font-family: PingFang SC, Helvetica, Arial, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft Yahei, STHeiTi, sans-serif; text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; cursor: pointer; border: 0px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-align: justify;">眼看马上又到清明节了，今年大家还会去祭祖上坟吗?其实，我小时候不喜欢去上坟，也不是很理解。因为，每次都要漫山遍野地去给那些见都没见过的亲人磕头烧纸，弄得满头纸钱灰烬和浑身草籽。</p><p style="font-family: PingFang SC, Helvetica, Arial, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft Yahei, STHeiTi, sans-serif; text-size-adjust: 100%; 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安安.
发表于 2023-4-4 17:48:24
我觉得意义应该是为了让我们不忘记，只要记得就会一直在
你说啥就是啥
发表于 2023-4-4 17:53:20
以前看过一段话，离开的人真正离开是没人记得他的时候
洋葱和土豆
发表于 2023-4-4 18:20:42
都是为了记住前辈
缥渺
发表于 2023-4-4 20:16:21
就是为了一份念想
陈芳芳
发表于 2023-4-4 20:34:24
相对而言对我们意义重大
Anonymous
发表于 2023-4-4 23:04:00
总要有个合适的时机去看看已经去世的亲人，
蚂蚁
发表于 2023-4-5 07:49:42
年轻不懂，年纪大了主要缅怀
鄱湖漂萍
发表于 2023-4-5 08:44:42
我觉得是对我们健在的晚辈意义更大！
有点土
发表于 2023-4-5 08:50:28
我觉得对自己的意义更大一点吧